attachment with people is a beautiful thing. to recognize closeness and companionship with someone is a blessing. but what about when that connection fades? should we stick it out?
there is no blanket answer. the only thing you can do is be honest with yourself.
trust your gut. you know deep down the answers to everything. you are not confused, you just don't want to believe what your gut is telling you.
If there is someone in your life and you are putting up with them because of comfort, or guilt, or selfishness, you've got to trim the fat.
why do we stay in limbo for so long between when we know its over and when we actually let them go? we linger around hoping it will be different, why?! lets just cut the bullshit and bone out. there are better lovers, friends, objects, everything is out there. this may sound harsh, but get over it. you will eventually cut that person out of your life so why not just approach it with courage and do it now. welcome the opportunity for someone new to positively affect your life, and stop clinging to the past. experience the world today, not how it was yesterday or how you expect it to be tomorrow.
you can only change you. no one else. so be the agent of change and move forward with your life and leave the others in the dust.
...sorry this post has a little bit of bitch in it, but some days I just have to lay it out there ;)
"Don't be reckless with other people's hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours".
"There comes a time in life when you have to let go of all the pointless drama & the people who create it & surround yourself with people who make you laugh so hard that you forget the bad and focus solely on the good. After all, life is too short to be anything but happy."
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